Early love is a problem that many teenagers encounter, especially those in primary and secondary schools. Children at this age are relatively simple, precocious, and easily attracted to the opposite sex, which can lead to early love. So what are the behaviors of children in early love? Let’s take a look.
Firstly, children pay special attention to dressing up, accessories, and makeup, and are particularly concerned about their appearance and hairstyle. Sometimes they behave disorderly, shy, or excited in front of the opposite sex.
Secondly, they spend a lot of money, which often leads to financial deficits. They may ask parents or family members for money, or even borrow money from others.
Thirdly, they cannot concentrate in class, lack focus and often appear absent-minded or indifferent. Their academic performance may decline, but the grades of certain subjects may temporarily improve. However, due to the time and energy consumed by early love, overall performance tends to decline.
Fourthly, they suddenly become eloquent or silent, cannot go to bed on time, avoid group activities, and do not want to contact people.
Fifthly, they increase the frequency of phone calls, QQ and WeChat conversations, and abnormal contacts from other places also increase significantly.
Sixthly, they behave sneakily and keep their phone calls, QQ and WeChat conversations secret, as if they are doing “underground work.”
Seventhly, they often forget or do not handle agreements reached with family members or teachers if they do not return home or go to school on time.
Eighth, academic performance significantly declines, and they lack concentration in class.
Ninth, originally lively children suddenly become less talkative and unwilling to communicate with parents.
Tenth, when they come back home, they cannot stay at home and always find various reasons to go out. They like to go to parks, KTV, and other places, and sometimes even lie.
Eleventh, their thoughts and emotions fluctuate greatly, sometimes excited, sometimes depressed, restless, and impatient.
Twelfth, suddenly, they develop a strong interest in literature, art, movies, and novels with love as the theme.
Thirteenth, suddenly, they like to discuss things between the sexes with people.
Fourteenth, when writing letters or diaries to parents or relatives, they pay special attention to ambiguous styles of paper and hide the letters.